Child support, the term both women & men hate to hear.

Child support, the term both women & men hate to hear.

If you have a good father in your child's life try everything to avoid going through the courts for child support. Be appreciative of the fact that the government doesn't need to intervene because your son already has a good dad. That's dope. Co-parenting is always the way to go and that can be either financially or emotionally. As a parent the most important thing is communication and commitment, so if you can avoid the hassle. 

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Dealing with negative feelings when trying to raise a child alone & overcoming.

Dealing with negative feelings when trying to raise a child alone & overcoming.

I woke up one day with the realization that his father wouldn't fully commit to being a father if he wasn't with me. That hurt. The idea that if I lost myself and remained unhappy I could bring back my baby's family. It weighed down my soul every time I walked around and saw father's and mother's with their child. My child could not have that, ever again. He would not be able to see his father and mother defining unity because of my choice to choose to be happy.

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